Comes a comment about an old article, regarding the girls in Mexico…
Hey Kyle I basically agree with some of your generalities. My last six girlfriends, and one ex-wife, all have come from Monterrey Nuevo Leon, and I will tell you, outside of LA I have never been to a city with so many gorgeous women, and ones with class and style too.
Actually I am referring more specifically to San Pedro Garza Garcia, the southern suburbs at the foot of the mountains, and also the most wealthiest municipality in all of Mexico.
I can assure you that each one of them had their own particular mannerism and personality traits.
There is always the good the bad and the ugly wherever you go. But of the similar traits I found common in all of them, without exception are: they lie, they lie, they cheat, they lie.
You can trust them 100% in one thing … they will do whatever, or whoever, whenever they want and then lie about it as naturally as if they had been lying ever since they learned to talk, .. because they have.
The other trait is a deep rooted belief that all men are basically “pendejos y pinche cobrones” and deserve to be used and exploited without remorse. Columbian women tend to play with your romantic emotions.
They way the come on it’s hard to believe they are not head over heels in love with you.
Don’t fall for it.
Almost all of them will burst out into tears when you leave.
Thanks for reading and good luck out there.
Honestly, I’ve said this forever, but Mexico is a great place to head if you just want a taste of what dating abroad/expat life can be. You can take a long weekend for 4-5 days, be there in just a few short hours, and it’s a heckuva lot easier than uprooting yourself from the US all the way to Europe, Asia, or one of the more Southern South American countries like Argentina or Brazil.
That’s my thoughts.
Take a test drive.
To this readers point about lying, I prefer to think of it this way…
Women will be women.
Women, instinctively, have their own best interests to look out for. It’s how they’re wired, because not long ago, they were too weak to defend themselves from an invading tribe, and were utterly useless for any survival in the world, apart from raising children. The men had to hunt, kill, protect, invade, defend — everything.
Except having kids.
That’s why, you hear stories and situations like these, where the women are lying.
Think about it this way:
If we were rewinding a few hundred years, and an invading tribe was killing off all the women in their newly-conquered village except the virgins…
Wouldn’t the women…lie?
Of course they would!
And really, it’s no different today, just the situations have changed.
Now, a woman might lie if she thinks it will get her a better mate who can provide better, or she might lie if it means you’ll stick around so she can try to snare you under her spell. You get where I’m going with this?
Trust women to be women.
Sometimes, for them, that means lying as an instinctive mechanism.
Is it ethical?
No, but women by their nature are not as concerned about loyalty and ethics are as men. And yes, you can be angry about it, you can feel that it’s not fair but ultimately, at the end of the day, it’s simply not going to change at all. It is what it is. Good luck un-doing thousands of years of biological programming in your 70-90 years on this Earth.
In the meantime, myself and the other members of “Actually Abroad” will continue to enjoy the fruits of the foreign girls, while accepting them for what they are.
Join the #1 men’s community for life abroad.
There’s some great content in there, exclusive to October, that’s vanishing in just a few short days (Oct 31st, 11:59pm)
Here’s the link: