Illimitable Men, whose Twitter is a gawd-damn goldmine, recently put out the following:
*Men need to stop being little weaklings, man up and start asking women out instead of expecting women to approach them.
*Men need to stop asking women out, because if she’s made to feel uncomfortable, it’s harassment.
Pick one you assholes, because you don’t get to have both.
Damned if ya do, damned if you don’t either.
The funny thing is that with the growth of smartphones and dating apps, there’s a decent chance that your average man will never even try to meet girls except off of his smartphone. And girls will never expect to be approached, because the little weasel-men don’t have the stones to do it.
It won’t surprise me if you see entire bars full of people, all on their smartphone.
Maybe someone will invent an app that will allow you to swipe left or right on people in the bar.
Then it can lead you towards where they are with some creepy GPS stuff, and start beeping when you get closer.
Beep, beep, beep, beep.
Laugh all you want.
You know we’re not THAT far from that reality.
Now, this isn’t the end all be all for dating.
Reason why is simple:
Simply put, girls are biologically, hardwired, cannot-change-it-don’t-even-try to like men who are confident and charismatic. So, provided you have those characteristics, you’re going to taken at face value and not labeled instantly as a creep.
Even with all the “harassment” laws.
IM’s right though—they can’t have it both ways.
The only solution that you have control over is simply how others perceive you. If they perceive you poorly you’ll get the creep label. They perceive you positively, guess what — you’re in like Flynn.
So, easy solution.
Become the best man you can:
Keep causing Trouble,